Leaving the City of Regret

Excerpted from Perfect Love by Joyce Meyer

I had not really planned on taking a trip this time of the year, and yet I found myself packing hurriedly. This trip was going to be unpleasant and I knew in advance that no good would come of it. I’m talking about my annual "Guilt Trip". I got tickets to fly there on Wish I Had Airlines. It was an extremely short flight. I got my baggage which I couldn’t check, I chose to carry it myself all the way. It was weighted down with a thousand memories of what might have been. No one greeted me as I entered the terminal to the Regret City International Airport. I say international because people from all over the world come to this dismal town.

As I checked into the Last Resort Hotel, I noticed they were hosting the year's most important event, the Annual Pity Party. 

I wasn’t going to miss that great social occasion. Many of the town's leading citizens would be there. 

First, there would be the Done family, Should Have Done, Would have Done, and Could Have Done. Then came the I Had family. You probably know ol' Wish I Had & his clan. Of course the Opportunities would be present, Missed and Lost . The biggest family would be the Yesterdays. There are too many of them to count, but each one would have a sad story to tell. 

Then Shattered Dreams would surely make an appearance and Its Their Fault would regale us with stories (excuses) about how things have failed in his life, and each story will be loudly applauded by Don't Blame Me and I Couldn't Help It.

Well, to make a long story short, I went to this depressing party knowing that there would be no real benefit in doing so. And, as usual, I became very depressed. But as I thought about all the stories of failures brought back from the past, it occurred to me that all of this trip and subsequent "pity party" trips could be cancelled by me! I started to truly realize that I did not have to be there. I didn't have to be depressed. One thing kept going through my mind: 

I CAN'T CHANGE YESTERDAY, BUT I DO HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE TODAY A WONDERFUL DAY.

I can be happy, joyous, fulfilled, encouraged, as well as encouraging. Knowing this, i left the City of Regret immediately and left no forwarding address. Am I sorry for mistakes I've made in the past? YES! But there is no physical way to undo them.

So, if your'e planning a trip to the City of Regret, please cancel all your reservations now. Instead, take a trip to a place called Starting Again. I liked it so much that I have taken up permanent residence there. My neighbors, the I Forgive Myself and the New Starts, are also very helpful. By the way, you don't have to carry around heavy baggage, because the load is lifted form your shoulders on arrival. God bless you in finding this great town. If you have difficulty finding it--it's in your own heart--please look me up. I live on I Can Do It Street.

Excerpts: Adultery by Paulo Coelho

Photo Credit: Goodreads

There is nothing more important we can give than the Love reflected in our own lives.

That is the one universal language that allows us to speak Chinese or dialects of India.

When I was young I traveled a lot—it was part of every student's rite of passage. I visited countries both rich and poor. I did not usually speak the local language, but everywhere the silent eloquence of Love helped me make myself understood.

The message of Love is in the way I live my life, and not in my words or my deeds.

In the letter of the Corinthians, Paul tells us, in three short lines, that Love is made of many elements, like light. We learn at school that if we pick up a prism and allow a ray of light to pass through, that ray will divide into seven colors, those of rainbow.

Paul shows us the rainbow of Love just as prism reveals to us the rainbow of light.

And what are those elements? They are virtues we hear about every day and that we can practice in every moment.

Patience: Love is patient...

Kindness: ...and kind.

Generosity: Love does not envy...

Humility:... or boast; it is not arrogant...

Courtesy:... or rude.

Unselfishness: It does not insist on its own way.

Good temper: It is not irritable...or resentful.

Guilelessness: or resentful.

Sincerity: It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.

All these gifts concern us, our daily lives, and today and tomorrow, not with Eternity.

The problem is that people tend to relate these traits to the Love of God, but how does God manifest itself? Through the Love of man.

To find Peace in heaven, we must find love on Earth. Without it, we are worthless.

Let God Use You

"As the Father has sent me, so I send you.”  -John 20:21

“Pray ka kay Jesus ha. Pag pray ka ni Ate Robz”; were the only words I could utter while hugging with a kid from He Care Mission.

I was taking photos during prayer time of the program, when I saw her in front crying.
She didn’t notice I was observing her I was pretending to take photos of the other kids.

Tears fell from her eyes and she kept on wiping it with both hands.
Then she transferred at the back as she continues to cover her face.

I transferred at the back too and asked the kid beside her to call her for me
as there's no space I could sit beside her. She just looked at me & refused. I asked her once again.
Then she stood up & sat beside me. We were sitting in an indian sit.

I hugged her so tight & I found myself crying too. I wanted to say something but I couldn’t utter any words anymore. I don’t know what she’s going through. I don’t know the reasons of those tears that made my heart felt so heavy.  I didn’t bother to ask anymore. I only promised that I will pray for her.

I continue to capture photos & saw her once again eating her meal. I smiled at her.
She looked at with me with a beautiful smile that I forgot to capture it with my cam.

I woke up today & remembered that wonderful experience yesterday.
Her beautiful smile made me cry again.

Thank you Lord for using me & for letting us experience Your amazing love everywhere.